I have a bunch of things to get ready for work tomorrow , but I just discovered that John Phillip wrote the grateful dead's "me and my uncle " and now I have 10 tabs open to get to the bottom of this this.
Back in the day I hated the grateful dead , as any self respecting NoMeansNo fan would . And, The mama's and the papa's were my moms favorite record - mom rock , thats not cool . But as time has gone on I have become interested in both bands. Maybe related to the fact that my Deadhead friend killed himself in 2012 and then my mom died of a heart attack 5 years later. I like listening to the music they like .\
The story is that John Philips wrote it one night and was so drunk that he didn't remember , until he started getting royalty checks for the song from Judy collins. He called her to tell her it wasn't his song and she said " yeah it is , I recorded it on a tape on tequila night"
there's a John Phillips version, a Judy Collins version , I was about to give Joni Mitchel the top spot until I discovered Dino Valente , stage name for Chet Powers , from Quicksilver Messenger Service .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0befKWCnug