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I have a Lab-mix named Roxy. She's 9, and I have had her since she was 1. I got her from a rescue shelter. I got her around the time I started having health issues in my mid-to-late 20's, so she's been attached to my hip since the day I brought her home. She's an odd doggie, who hates going outside and doesn't go on walks, and when other dogs are around her she goes still and acts as if she's trying to be invisible :lol: :lol: One time when she was getting a haircut at a pet-store, she was in a room with a dozen other dogs, and while the other dogs were playing/running around, my Roxy sat stiff in a corner locker, as if invisible to the dogs running around her, like one of those royal-palace guards that stand motionless despite people moving around near them and trying to get them to do something LOL. That cracked me up. She was like a statue as if hoping the other dogs would pay her no attention :lol: :lol:

Roxy has spoiled me as far as being a dog that literally has never been sick!! Not once. People tend to not believe me when I say that, but She's over nine and has never once had an accident or went to the bathroom inside our homes!! Never threw up (there was spit-up of water once or twice from drinking too fast). But never puked!! Nothing. I think she might not have gotten sick due to her not going for walks so she doesn't sniff around outside (she just runs out, makes, and hauls ass to get back inside). But never once did she make inside or get sick. Easiest dog to take care of. **Side note, me and my brother had a lab/pit mix before Roxy, and she died at age 3 due to cancer which was linked to stuff they were spraying on the grass/bushes (lots of dogs in South Florida died from cancer-related to pesticides about 10 years ago, it was on the news and big deal in the area because there were so many young dogs dying from cancer caused by whatever they were using on grass/bushes). I got Roxy a week after that dog (Bella) died**

About a week ago, I noticed she was a little more lethargic, and not eating as much. Also, and this is what worries me, she has a metal/copper smell (my mom thinks it smells like blood). I thought the smell was coming from her mouth at first, but no, its coming from her whole body it appears. And it's gotten stronger. But she seemed relatively okay, and was fine yesterday while I was at work (she ate and went outside to make). Until Sunday

Today/Sunday was rough. Something is clearly wrong. She was puking and had some loose stool (she still went outside to make so her streak of never peeing/pooping in the house is still PERFECT!! Damn I love her!) But she's thrown up a bunch on the floor and on the couches. Mostly liquid, some bile. Her stool when she made was very loose and had a weird orange-ish color. Right now she is sleeping.

She's not in pain, thankfully. Just sick or has some other problem. I'm going to get her to a vet as soon as possible Monday (today as it's 130 am why I type this). For the most part she's been comfortable, and not showing signs of discomfort or pain, and still has control over going out to make. I'll be sleeping on the floor besides the couch tonight.

I think this is my first ever thread I started on the forum. Sorry it is a sad post. I think I needed to just vent. Anyone ever deal with a dog that suddenly had a metallic/copper or blood smell? Any idea of what could be the cause? I googled to research what could cause a metal-like smell and got dozens of reddit posts and blog posts about what it could be. It seems fairly common, but it is the first I've ever had a dog giving off this copper/almost dry blood smell. Any tips on what I should tell the vet or help the vet trying to figure out what's going on?

I HOPE I can even get a vet Monday. Covid has changed the way a lot of vets do business and I've been reading that some people have had to wait for appointments. Guess I'll take Roxy to a animal hospital if I can't get her to a vet. I'll post updates as I find out more.
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Sorry to hear about your dog!

My Rottie was definitely a puker. Vet said she was completely healthy, just had a sensitive stomach. She lived a long, happy life. But man, she would just puke out of nowhere two or three times a week. I had her on a special diet of expensive dog food, boiled chicken, eggs, and rice. That helped a lot. Her poor stomach couldn’t handle normal processed dog food.

As for your dog, just a quick question based on some of her symptoms. Is she spayed?

As for the copper smell, you need to get her anal glands emptied. It’s not something you want to try yourself, although you could if you really wanted to. I’m sure the vet can do it for you. Copper smell is usually the glands. Would also explain the loose stools and such. If she’s not acting lethargic otherwise, this could hopefully be the only issue.

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e_poison wrote: Mon Feb 22, 2021 7:00 am Sorry to hear about your dog!

My Rottie was definitely a puker. Vet said she was completely healthy, just had a sensitive stomach. She lived a long, happy life. But man, she would just puke out of nowhere two or three times a week. I had her on a special diet of expensive dog food, boiled chicken, eggs, and rice. That helped a lot. Her poor stomach couldn’t handle normal processed dog food.

As for your dog, just a quick question based on some of her symptoms. Is she spayed?

As for the copper smell, you need to get her anal glands emptied. It’s not something you want to try yourself, although you could if you really wanted to. I’m sure the vet can do it for you. Copper smell is usually the glands. Would also explain the loose stools and such. If she’s not acting lethargic otherwise, this could hopefully be the only issue.

Let us know what the vet says!
Thanks E! I have a 445pm vet visit today... Yeah she's spayed

Hopefully it is just the anal glands. She's been okay today so far, just sleeping, but resting comfortable. She's still lethargic but also hasn't eaten much past few days. She has been drinking water and holding that in today. I'll find out in a few hours at the vet.

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Okay, that's good she's spayed. I was going to say it could possibly be pyometra if unspayed. I was always worried about that with my dog because she was not spayed. I had always planned on breeding her since she came from a good bloodline, but never did. All my other dogs are/have been spayed and neutered. She was the only one who wasn't, so I don't want to sound like an irresponsible pet owner here lol. Regardless of not being spayed, she lived a long healthy life of about 12 years w/ no major health issues, which is great considering the average lifespan of her breed (Rottweiler) is about 8-10 years.

Hope your dog is okay! What did the vet say? Was it the glands?
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Well... fuck

Just got home from the Vet an hour ago. Roxy is in kidney failure it seems. Not 100% sure but her blood work came back pretty bad for her kidney... Going to try having her admitted to the vet hospital tomorrow for either 24-48 hours to run IV fluids and maybe flush out any toxins, hoping maybe it helps. There's a chance (small chance) it's something else like an infection, but the Vet was honest in that we shouldn't get our hopes up. I appreciate the honesty.

Other option we talked about was putting her down. Within the next day or two! :( :(

Wasn't expecting things to go this way so fast. At least shes not in any pain. She's home tonight.

This sucks
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Damn, I'm so sorry to hear about your beloved companion. Hearing about this is so heartbreaking.

Hoping they can do something to effect a cure and wishing for the best possible outcome!
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I feel ya. The IV will help, but kidney damage is serious. Hoping there is a solution. <3 It's very apparent you responsibly and lovingly did everything you could.
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I'm sorry to hear that! Right before she passed, my dog also went from perfectly fine to very sick with no warning within about a day. It's very rough to deal with and hard to watch our pets lose their health so quickly.

Has she been drinking more water than normal? I'm pretty sure kidneys is what got my girl as well. In her last few months, she drank so much water which is a sign of kidney failure.

It's good she's not in pain. I hope it's just an minor infection and the IV helps. Keep her comfortable and hopefully this all works out for you and your girl. Losing a pet is like losing a best friend and family member rolled into one, sometimes even harder because our pets are like our children.

I'm sorry you and her are going through this. Keeping you and your pup in my thoughts!
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e_poison wrote: Mon Feb 22, 2021 10:22 pm I'm sorry to hear that! Right before she passed, my dog also went from perfectly fine to very sick with no warning within about a day. It's very rough to deal with and hard to watch our pets lose their health so quickly.

Has she been drinking more water than normal? I'm pretty sure kidneys is what got my girl as well. In her last few months, she drank so much water which is a sign of kidney failure.

It's good she's not in pain. I hope it's just an minor infection and the IV helps. Keep her comfortable and hopefully this all works out for you and your girl. Losing a pet is like losing a best friend and family member rolled into one, sometimes even harder because our pets are like our children.

I'm sorry you and her are going through this. Keeping you and your pup in my thoughts!
Sorry you had to go through that too, and really thankful for your responses and thoughts and sharing your experience.

Yeah she's been drinking A LOT more water than normal recently. I can't recall when it started, but past few months at least. I think we just thought it was dry because of the winter weather. But it has been several months where she's drank much more water than normal. I never took drinking water to be a sign to look out for. Live and learn type of experience I guess.

You are so right about how rough it is watching this happen, and so quickly. I've had family dogs that have died in my life, but this is "my first dog" who I adopted and has been attached to my hip for nearly the past 10 years, and it's hitting me hard. Still kind of in shock I think. We dropped her off at the vet, went home while waiting for the blood work, and the vet called about 45 minutes later and hit us with everything. Never did I expect to have a talk with the vet about options like putting her down. The vet is awesome though. I'm really happy with the vet hospital and the staff and doctors. I could tell they took great care of Roxy while she was in there (she wasn't freaked out or panting or anxious). They didn't even make us pay anything yet, which I am really surprised by. We even asked about payment and the vet said don't worry about that now and we'll talk about that another time. It's probably gonna cost me about $1000-1300 overall after everything including a 24-48 stay in the vet hospital. I was for some reason expecting more, especially since this is a pretty advanced/high tech vet hospital. It did make it easier not discussing money right then and there.

Roxy has never been sick so I have been majorly spoiled, and when I titled and posted this thread, I never expected it would turn out like this. I'll probably adopt another rescue dog soon after. It wasn't long ago our house had 3 dogs, and could be down to 1 very soon (and she's 11)... so it's getting quiet.

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oh hun, that's so hard. so many hugs. how is she doing now? I'm guessing she's at the vet hospital now? did they test her sugar levels? I would hope if they didn't, the hospital will. if it's diabetes, you might be able to get it under control with both the IV fluids and insulin. prayers everything goes as good as possible 🙏
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Awhhh...I’m so sad for you and Roxy. Poor baby. Know that she’s in good hands at the vet and the IV will make her feel so much better. I will be praying that we hear good news here from you soon!

The one and only bummer of owning pets is that they don’t live as long as us. 😔
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Roxy did a little better today with the IV treatment at the vet hospital. The vet doctor said she was doing a bit better and showing some signs of improvement, like wagging her tail and looking more alert (and her vitals, blood pressure, and lungs were all good). We were told that she was reacting better to the vet and staff instead of being so out of it like yesterday. She still hasn't eaten anything, but she's drinking and hasn't thrown up in over two days. And she is going to the bathroom on her own outside and in control of her bladder. Her nose is wet today, and her eyes look better. Small signs the IV is helping

So Roxy is home for the night, and we will be bringing her back for round 2 tomorrow morning, and tomorrow after her second day of IV fluids she will get new blood work done to see if her kidney functions are improving. The vet says it could go either way, but the vet was a bit more hopeful based off of her response to the IV fluids. I don't want to get my hopes up but I'm just happy she's at least getting some treatment and home with us for now and resting peacefully. We got special dog food for her from the vet BUT her lack of any appetite is still very concerning. We didn't get extensive tests done beside basic blood workup, so there is always the chance (small chance) that her kidney was shutting down from some other factor other than kidney failure on its own. I haven't gotten xrays or any other scans done. That is why I had to at least try fluid treatment first... I feel awful for those who can't afford an extra vet bill and have to put an animal down because they can't pay for tests/treatment. I'd feel so guilty if I didn't try treatment first. As long as she's not in pain which thankfully she isn't at the moment

The hospital we take her too I guess isn't a 24 hour place, and they don't have anyone in the building from like 9pm-5am. I'm not sure how it works or if the dogs are sedated as I forgot to ask if the dogs are alone when they are left overnight. So the Vet let us take her home for the night. She's got an IV catheter in one of her arms giving her fluids, and a cone around her neck so she can't get at it. We had the option of leaving her there or bringing her home and then return in the morning. Shes resting with her head on my lap as I type this, sound asleep :)

The shock of yesterday has worn off, and I'll be happy with any extra time, even just a night or two. We'll know more after her blood work comes back tomorrow evening. If there's no changes and kidney is still failing, then I'll know it is time and make arrangements...I've been trying to mentally prepare myself for past year or two for something like this, knowing time is short, but DAMN I was not ready

Thanks everyone for the comments; they help. I'll try to respond to each one a little later.
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I'm glad to hear she's doing a bit better and hope she continues to improve!
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Does she have a cute stubby docked tail, or a strong, whip-like intact tail?

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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Tue Feb 23, 2021 10:48 pm Does she have a cute stubby docked tail, or a strong, whip-like intact tail?

Hoping for the best.
A whip-like tail for sure. We often called her "whip-it" cause the way she flicked her tail back and forth so fast without regard to what she hit with it :lol:

She still has not eaten anything. 3rd day without food now, though she still has been able to drink and no throw up. If the 2nd round of treatment she's gonna get today doesn't work or do much, I think it will then be time. I haven't slept in 2 days except for a short nap while she was at the vet
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have you tried boiled chicken yet? or even just plain white rice. both are good when tummies are sensitive. lots of prayers for you and your sweet baby. 💗
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starshine wrote: Wed Feb 24, 2021 2:31 am have you tried boiled chicken yet? or even just plain white rice. both are good when tummies are sensitive. lots of prayers for you and your sweet baby. 💗
Thanks! We haven't tried boiled chicken but I did try plain white rice earlier. The vet gave us a can of special kidney food to try to give her if we fed her but that didn't work either (we tried that first, second, then I tried some rice, She has no interest it appears in any food). I wish I knew what stage of kidney disease she was in. I find some comfort in knowing shes not in pain. She's sleeping no problem. But after today (Wednesday), if she doesn't improve with the second day of IV fluids, I don't know what else could be done. I hope she is not suffering in any way. The vet and staff say she's so good with them. I'm coming to terms with it all now that the initial shock has wore off. But I lost it when I laid down in my bed and her cushion she slept on was empty

Thanks for your thoughts! I appreciate the advice and questions.

I'm going to try to find the blood work results and post them here (the ones that indicated kidney failure), see what everyone thinks.
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oh I would surely lose it too 😥 my almost 3yo great pyrenees is my best friend and, of course, I love our others just as much. it's unreal how my heart feels for all animals and I have tears now. it worries me too that she hasn't eaten. you are being strong and doing the absolute best you can.

not sure if you have fb, but there is a vet-run group that only vets can post/answer if you want to check it out. if it was me, it would make me feel better to have another opinion and, hopefully, more advice. even if just to confirm what your vet says. you could post her history, the current turn of events, and her blood work. this is the group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/3374214 ... ?ref=share

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Boiled chix is great for recovering tummies, as is rice. Chinese make a rice gruel called 'jook' which is fantastic for dogs on the mend.

Mei had the cutest tail, she won a tail wagging contest during a k9 play event, and she'd go around the dogpark whipping people with her tail, lol one time a young couple came over to pet her and the girl made a comment like, 'ahh, she's whipping me' it was funny. When the nerve damage kicked in she could no longer wag, sometimes she could stick it out to the side a little and I'd imagine a 'fwang' sound, but it bummed me out that she couldn't communicate with it much.

Remember she loves you and as she's going through all this, she still wants to be a good dog for you.
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I had to put Roxy to sleep about an hour ago... her blood work came back even worse, much worse. She was my best friend and it happened so fast. When I posted this thread I never expected things to go this way. It was peaceful though. She was such a great dog, never even barked or growled, just the sweetest thing, and had never gotten sick up until this event. She spoiled me with how easy she was :cry: :cry:

That was my first time making that decision and being in the room for it. The vets and staff were great. They all loved her, she was such a good girl, and I could tell they took great care of her while she was there, and she was so nice to see that she was so comfortable around them. I was surprised by how much she seemed to like the staff and doctors.

That was so hard. When me and my mom got into the room she was so excited to see us, and seemed more playful and energetic than she had in days, wagging her tail and jumping on us giving us kisses. That made it harder because she looked so good. I wish I could have brought her home for at least one more night and maybe did it at out house. I hope I made the right decision. But I also didn't want to see her suffer or waste away. She hadn't eaten in 4 days, so I don't know how much longer she had anyways. Ughh this sucks :cry:

I will likely go to a shelter and get another rescue dog very soon. We are down to one dog in our home now (from 3 just a few years ago). Thanks everyone for your thoughts and support
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Don't second guess yourself, you 100% did the right thing by putting her down then. You let her leave with dignity and peace, she felt great to see you and is so thankful you were there, putting her needs first. Being sick was something new for her, and it's a good thing you knew to get her treatment. She must have felt so relieved from the IV. I bet she's so happy eating and romping around in the afterlife, waiting to be with you again... maybe she's annoyed that it's not heaven until you join her, but she has things to do in the meantime, like being walked by angels or something, making them pick up poop.

I feel ya, still missing Mei and Max horribly. Posting some pics helped me organize my thoughts and be thankful for the time we had together. I think I might foster/adopt an older dog within a year, a non-neurotic, mostly-trained dog. Mei never had any bad or weird dog behavior aside from taking my dad's slipper and putting it in the middle of the living room when we left her alone for a few hours. I'm not sure what that meant, and she only did it on occasion. <3
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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Wed Feb 24, 2021 7:19 pm Don't second guess yourself, you 100% did the right thing by putting her down then. You let her leave with dignity and peace, she felt great to see you and is so thankful you were there, putting her needs first. Being sick was something new for her, and it's a good thing you knew to get her treatment. She must have felt so relieved from the IV. I bet she's so happy eating and romping around in the afterlife, waiting to be with you again... maybe she's annoyed that it's not heaven until you join her, but she has things to do in the meantime, like being walked by angels or something, making them pick up poop.

I feel ya, still missing Mei and Max horribly. Posting some pics helped me organize my thoughts and be thankful for the time we had together. I think I might foster/adopt an older dog within a year, a non-neurotic, mostly-trained dog. Mei never had any bad or weird dog behavior aside from taking my dad's slipper and putting it in the middle of the living room when we left her alone for a few hours. I'm not sure what that meant, and she only did it on occasion. <3
Thank you for this! I've been feeling down and reading this helped! It was such a peaceful thing. The sedative they gave her made her lie down within like 10 seconds, much faster than I was expecting. I was with her rubbing her head while she lied down as the vet gave the second shot. She passed looking like she just went to sleep. I actually didn't know she passed so quickly, until my mom asked the vet who confirmed it. But it really just looked like she lied down to rest her eyes, so not much more peaceful than that, which I take comfort in. My mom joked as we were leaving that she wanted to go out that way :lol:

Hopefully you're feeling better after the passing of your fur-babies.

I am thinking of getting another rescue dog very very soon. I know it will help fill the void
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Sorry to hear, Mike. That is awful news! I'm so sorry for your loss. I was really hoping the IV treatments would help and you would come back with a happy update.

But you definitely did the right thing by not allowing her to live in pain. Kidney problems can get really painful toward the end and you spared her from the worst of it.

It all happened so fast... I know that feeling. My dog went from active and playful to extremely sick within a day. And then she passed.

I hope you can heal quickly. Another dog will definitely help fill that void you are feeling.

Try to get some sleep, you said you haven't slept in a couple days. I know it's easier said than done, but don't forget to take care of yourself too. So get some sleep then get out there and bring a rescue home.
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e_poison wrote: Wed Feb 24, 2021 10:27 pm Sorry to hear, Mike. That is awful news! I'm so sorry for your loss. I was really hoping the IV treatments would help and you would come back with a happy update.

But you definitely did the right thing by not allowing her to live in pain. Kidney problems can get really painful toward the end and you spared her from the worst of it.

It all happened so fast... I know that feeling. My dog went from active and playful to extremely sick within a day. And then she passed.

I hope you can heal quickly. Another dog will definitely help fill that void you are feeling.

Try to get some sleep, you said you haven't slept in a couple days. I know it's easier said than done, but don't forget to take care of yourself too. So get some sleep then get out there and bring a rescue home.
Thanks again for all the words of support, E! This was the first time I went through this experience, making the final decision and being in the room at the end. As much as it hurts, I want to get another dog right away because of much joy and love they add to a person's life and home.

I'm glad I at least tried with the IV treatments. The vet thinks she knows the other half of her breed. I knew she was half lab, half some other breed (thought maybe part grey hound based on her legs and how she ran and jumped). But the vet thinks she was a lab-terrier mix. I googled it just now and found a picture that is very close to how Roxy looked) https://www.thelabradorsite.com/wp-cont ... er-mix.jpg That's not Roxy but Roxy had the same ears, tail and size/build as the dog in the picture. I don't know how to upload pictures to the forum (and never used imgur or anything like that) but I'm going to try to learn so I can post some pictures of her.

She also had a heart murmur the vet said was a considered a "4" on a scale of 1-6, but not sure how much of an impact that had. How it all went so fast was what may be the hardest. But now I know more future dogs. Something to learn from.

Yeah I have barely slept- I sat with Roxy on the couch or stayed with her on the flood the past 3 nights. I'm off for the next few days and the plan is to sleep A LOT, do some long over-due cleaning in the house, and then maybe go to a local shelter this weekend and maybe bring a new pup home.

Thanks again everyone.
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I am brand new here, but I have been following your story.

I am so very sorry to see this update.


Sending lots of good thoughts your way.
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Oh no, I am so sorry to see this. My condolences for the loss of your pup. :cry:
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I’m really sorry to hear that Roxy has gone over the 🌈 bridge. I hope you’re ok? I wish I could give you a big hug. I saw the pic of the dog you posted what a pretty dog! I have a lab cross, too. We think ours is lab/border collie.
You mentioned you might be getting a new dog? My mom always rescues a new dog almost immediately after one of her dogs passes. She believes it helps with the grieving process and it saves an unfortunate dog. You’ll never stop loving Roxy or forget Roxy. The new pet will just help you to smile and not be so sad. Try to figure out how to post a pic. when you find your new pup. 😊
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Sassysquatch wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 7:37 pm I’m really sorry to hear that Roxy has gone over the 🌈 bridge. I hope you’re ok? I wish I could give you a big hug. I saw the pic of the dog you posted what a pretty dog! I have a lab cross, too. We think ours is lab/border collie.
You mentioned you might be getting a new dog? My mom always rescues a new dog almost immediately after one of her dogs passes. She believes it helps with the grieving process and it saves an unfortunate dog. You’ll never stop loving Roxy or forget Roxy. The new pet will just help you to smile and not be so sad. Try to figure out how to post a pic. when you find your new pup. 😊
Thank you so much. I'm doing okay, I guess. I am looking to adopt/rescue a new dog this weekend, and have spent the day looking over pictures of current available dogs in the area. I think you mom is onto something. Just thinking about a new doggy makes me smile. Plus our last remaining dog keeps looking down the stairs and looks a little lost with what's going on, so we want to get her a young pup to play with

I have had a few moments where I kind of broke down. I came home today from the store and looked to the stairs, and in my head I must have heard something, but realized she wasn't running up, and that moment hit me hard.

Thank you again for you thoughts and kind words of support
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Putting your energy into a rescue and adoption will ease your mind. Perhaps you want to foster? I might do that.

Don't overlook a dog just cause he's a pitbull mix! Poor pits have such a bad rep and there are tons needing homes. They can be dog aggressive (bred to fight history) but aren't always, Mei wasn't. They tend to be people-loving (bred to be obedient to people in the family and to be controllable as fighting dogs) and are usually a bit goofy. Just my 2 cents on the subject of pitbulls, as there are so many needing families. But you will know the right dog when you go to meet them no matter the breed.

I feel really happy for you even as you go through this tough time, perhaps it's seeing you be strong and rational.

Love love.
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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:04 pm Putting your energy into a rescue and adoption will ease your mind. Perhaps you want to foster? I might do that.

Don't overlook a dog just cause he's a pitbull mix! Poor pits have such a bad rep and there are tons needing homes. They can be dog aggressive (bred to fight history) but aren't always, Mei wasn't. They tend to be people-loving (bred to be obedient to people in the family and to be controllable as fighting dogs) and are usually a bit goofy. Just my 2 cents on the subject of pitbulls, as there are so many needing families. But you will know the right dog when you go to meet them no matter the breed.

I feel really happy for you even as you go through this tough time, perhaps it's seeing you be strong and rational.

Love love.
Two of the best dogs we ever had were pit bull liter mates. They were the sweetest, most laid back lovey doves ever. It’s sad how they’ve gotten a bad rap. I really love your idea of fostering!
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Sassysquatch wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:14 pm
IndelibleDotInk wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:04 pm Putting your energy into a rescue and adoption will ease your mind. Perhaps you want to foster? I might do that.

Don't overlook a dog just cause he's a pitbull mix! Poor pits have such a bad rep and there are tons needing homes. They can be dog aggressive (bred to fight history) but aren't always, Mei wasn't. They tend to be people-loving (bred to be obedient to people in the family and to be controllable as fighting dogs) and are usually a bit goofy. Just my 2 cents on the subject of pitbulls, as there are so many needing families. But you will know the right dog when you go to meet them no matter the breed.

I feel really happy for you even as you go through this tough time, perhaps it's seeing you be strong and rational.

Love love.
Two of the best dogs we ever had were pit bull liter mates. They were the sweetest, most laid back lovey doves ever. It’s sad how they’ve gotten a bad rap. I really love your idea of fostering!
Yeah, I think I'm gonna foster an older dog at first. We are moving mid to late March to a decent sized house and I've got contact numbers for nine diff dog rescues around here. Poor mutts all needing homes.

I wonder what Mei is doing now, why she's not haunting me more obviously, hoping she'll be able to find her way to our new house. My cat Max who was put down in early Jan is interacting with Levi, my mom's cat, Levi runs around and yowls strange sounds like Max used to. Kinda weird, and Levi misses both Max and Mei.

Mike, how are your remaining dogs doing?
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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:27 pm
Sassysquatch wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:14 pm
IndelibleDotInk wrote: Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:04 pm Putting your energy into a rescue and adoption will ease your mind. Perhaps you want to foster? I might do that.

Don't overlook a dog just cause he's a pitbull mix! Poor pits have such a bad rep and there are tons needing homes. They can be dog aggressive (bred to fight history) but aren't always, Mei wasn't. They tend to be people-loving (bred to be obedient to people in the family and to be controllable as fighting dogs) and are usually a bit goofy. Just my 2 cents on the subject of pitbulls, as there are so many needing families. But you will know the right dog when you go to meet them no matter the breed.

I feel really happy for you even as you go through this tough time, perhaps it's seeing you be strong and rational.

Love love.
Two of the best dogs we ever had were pit bull liter mates. They were the sweetest, most laid back lovey doves ever. It’s sad how they’ve gotten a bad rap. I really love your idea of fostering!
Yeah, I think I'm gonna foster an older dog at first. We are moving mid to late March to a decent sized house and I've got contact numbers for nine diff dog rescues around here. Poor mutts all needing homes.

I wonder what Mei is doing now, why she's not haunting me more obviously, hoping she'll be able to find her way to our new house. My cat Max who was put down in early Jan is interacting with Levi, my mom's cat, Levi runs around and yowls strange sounds like Max used to. Kinda weird, and Levi misses both Max and Mei.

Mike, how are your remaining dogs doing?
I love pits!! My brother and I had a lab-pit mix about 11 years ago. She died of cancer at age 3- she lived 6 months after being diagnosed with her cancer which I think was one of the blood cancers). Her name was Bella and she lived like nothing was wrong until the day she died (her quality of life was hardly effected by the cancer. Then at the 6 month mark, she took a sudden turn, and with 12 hours had passed in the living room floor in the middle of the night (we had a morning appointment with the vet the following day which she didn't make). We had Bella for about 2 years, but she was more of my brother's dog, as I moved in with them a year after he rescued her from a shelter. My brother and his wife currently have a beautiful pure pit who is I think 9, and she is such a sweet and playful/goofy and friendly dog (but doesn't realize she's like 90 pounds of pure muscle haha lol). Roxy and the pit got along great in the few times they were around each other (mostly the pit trying to play with Roxy and Roxy just sitting like a statue trying to be invisible :lol: )

We have one last dog in my home right now. She's 11, and is in good but not the greatest shape and health. She's kind of my dad's dog in the house as she sleeps with him and bonded with him the most. She's a little 10-12 pound dog (can't think of the breed at the moment). Barks at everything and thinks she's the protector of the house :lol:

Yeah my mother and I have pretty much decided to get anew dog as soon as we can. We even thought of fostering first, fostering maybe some of the older dogs that sadly don't get adopted as much. Covid has changed how adoptions work here in North Carolina, but I want to go looking in person this weekend. We spent hours online looking at pictures of the dogs currently up for adoption
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You're gonna make the dog you pick a lucky, lucky pup. You're experienced with dogs and have a lot of love and scratches to give some spoiled pooch.
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I found Mei online on a rescue site, there were pics of her and her one floppy ear and I thought it was so cute and had to meet her. She came to meet us and see if we were gonna be a fit family for her; she was so shy and just sat on our sofa. She was the first dog I got, super lucky she turned out to be best in show and surely the pick of all litters.

My mom and dad always like to say how at first they thought she was an ugly dog with black blotches on her pink skin visible beneath her white fur and a weird flop ear, lol. My mom thought there was something wrong with her cause she didn't bark at first, but she was small kine shy but very friendly. Later my mom would wish she stopped barking, lol, and my parents loved her. She liked to spend mornings laying in the sun in our driveway until she got hot, then went into the shade of a bush until she cooled off, and then more sunbathing, barking if she was pau and ready to come in.

She looked like a small Holstein milk cow, so cute and one ear up, one down, showing such a pleasant temperament, I was in love. She was sleek and athletic, gaining tons of muscle, esp. her pitbull chest got massive. She had beautiful proportions and a refined muzzle, long and not smooshy like an American Bully, and more classic American Pitbull Terrier. She was eager to please, but with enough stubbornness to have a personality, and smart.

When I noticed she was aware of when I took my meds and that she could remind me or let me know when I needed an adjustment, I trained her to be with me always, and she took on a service dog role, and did it well until she became deaf, even after her nerve damage, she was able to walk again and be by my side.

Miss her tons.
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Sorry to spit all that up in your thread, I'll be quiet now, thanks for letting me express that.
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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Fri Feb 26, 2021 2:32 am Sorry to spit all that up in your thread, I'll be quiet now, thanks for letting me express that.
No that was beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

I tried to write up a reply about Roxy, but the damn onions got to me again :cry:
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Did you go looking at dogs this weekend?
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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Mon Mar 01, 2021 9:15 am Did you go looking at dogs this weekend?
Online, I did. Because of Covid, everything is online. I much rather just walk into a shelter and look into each cage, but it is so much different to adopt now than 10 years ago... I was surprised by how few dogs are in shelters! Not a bad thing I guess lol I bet with covid and working from home, everyone adopted pets.

And the dogs get adopted so fast right now! Some of the ones that caught my eye were already pending adoption the very same day they arrived in the shelter and were posted online. So I will be stalking the websites of shelters
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I'm starting to look for an old dog to foster.

Anything happening on your front?
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IndelibleDotInk wrote: Sat Apr 03, 2021 10:32 pm I'm starting to look for an old dog to foster.

Anything happening on your front?
I'm still looking to adopt as well. So far no luck. In my area here in Raleigh, there are not many dogs up for adoption at the shelters (a good thing for the dogs). I guess during Covid everyone adopted so the shelters have empty cages, and the good dogs go within a day or two. There's a couple of other adoption places but they require so much work just to even get a visit with the dogs!! One place has the foster family of whatever dog you want actually come to your house to see if it would be a good house for the animal!! That's crazy, a home inspection to rescue a dog!! I mean it is good for the dogs which is most important, but man is it difficult right now to rescue a dog (at least one that fits our home needs).

I can't wait to get a new pup! Oh how I miss opening the door to be greeting by Roxy! Coming home is one of the hardest parts, every time I almost tear up when I come home to silence. I check the shelters everyday online and on facebook. My birthday's in 2 weeks so I am really hoping to have a new dog by then
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